To makenew friend is a process...

The first day i reached to college, that day is orientation day for new students in january intake. When i went in to the threatte, i saw a guy who same school with me when i was studying in secondary school. Yet, i didn't greet him because the first thing that he didn't see and the second thing was i was not really know him so i just found a seat to sit. Then, orientation day started at about 10am. Before lunch time, some senior took all the new students to visit college. This is the point!! A indian girl, she walked beside me, first we don't know each other. How our friendship started?? She acted her own initiative talk to me. The 1st step is the most common, of course, everybody will say "HI" or "HELLO". After that, i asked her name and asked her whether she wanted to join with me at the lunch time. Then, she said "Yes!" and she also asked my name. I won't be too longwinded so i just stop here. As a result, we all know that 1st thing to do when we meet new friend, that is, we will introduce ourselves to others.

The another case was happening in my third day in the college. My 1st class is intermediate english, i was late because the stupid bus was late. Then, i knew a girl was not talking to others so that i talked to her. Just now i said that 1st things we usually do is greeting with each other or said "hi", yet i don't do that 1st. I straight away asked her that why i didn't see you in class yesterday. Then she told me that she was late so that she didn't come to the 1st class. Then, our friendship started at that time. But right now, we don't attend the same class because we took different in our electives subject. We still keep in touch with each other such as we eat lunch together. Remember, friendship is not just simply in front of you, you must take action in it. Therefore, everything we do is a process..""PROCESS""!!


Written by,
Chong Yen Wan
(11/06/09) THRUSDAY