Talking in the public is the most scaring thing...:P

Everyone will feel scared while he or she heard that " PUBLIC SPEAKING" included me, too. i will share that why i scared talking in the public. First, i feel that i am not good enough in my speaking skills. Speaking skills are like the pronounciation, grammar, tone and so forth; this all are important in speaking. Besides, i can speak clearly and confident when i am practicing the speech myself. Yet, when i am facing to the audience, i cannot do it, because i think that someone may not agree with me or may think that i am so stupid. I also not confident even though i talk to my friends or families. I am so scared and not really like people to criticism me. They can give suggestions but it is nor criticism.

Though i have learnt the skills of speaking, i also cannot do it. But i will try my best to do it and do more practice. In addition, i have another reason that i scared about public speaking. That is, my thinking skills is not really good. I have to do things slowly and i will get it and understand it. So, some people dislike this kind of behaviors and they may think i am stupid. Thus, life is just like this, we have to come through different kinds of challenge. Everything we want, we must really effort on it. Then, our dream may come true. :P..


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Chong Yen Wan
12/07/09 ( Sun)

judging

we never realize that we actually live our whole life by judging each other .. we judge what a person is like from the rough surface, we judge oin a person on how they act, we judge on a person on how they dress .. life is unfair .. why is it always like that ? we like to judge people but when people do it back to us , we get so touchy and emotional.



why do people like to judge ? is this what the world is made of ? judging people ? it is tied so deeply in us that we can't tear it away from us ...



we compare ourselves with the millions of people. what do we get ? we think highly of ourselves or the people around us when compared to others. no matter in terms of attitude, looks, status, clothes, anything under the sun.



why has human gone so complicated ? we deny that we don't do it. but . ARE YOU SURE ? ask yourself whether u really don't do it ?



*magdeline*

Group work..

I quite enjoy working in group work. Working in a group is better than working in individual. Of course, group work also has its good and bad. You may get more ideas and suggestions or comments when you are working in a group. Besides, you can learn the way you interact in a group, co-operation, leadership, responsible,and etc. This all values are very important because when you are working in a society, you must face many different kind of problems and you may know how to solve it. You don't just wait the problems and solve itself.

In college life, students almost get individual assignment. It occasionally works in a group, because teachers find out that students work in a group, they may somebody do not do the work. Therefore, it is not fair for the group members and others. In contrast, in high school life, students usually work as a group. This is because it is easy and fast to teachers. Teachers do not need to waste time in all that things because they think exam..exam is more important than working in a group. Therefore, this kind of attitudes may lead students have a bad attitudes and they give all the works to 1 person. :)


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Chong Yen Wan
11/07/09 (SAt)

Communication does not have U-turn!

Communication does not have U-turn, it means that once you talk some thing rude to another parties, it cannot take it back or go back to the original one. So, we must always bare in mind that think carefully whether this word or phrase is hurted someone. If the words or phrases is hurted someone, we better keep our mouth shut. For example, when you are driving in the highway,suddenly, you go to the wrong way and then you try your best to find a road to U-turn. So, driving on the road still have another way to go but communiation does not have this choices.

Be a good communicator must be always think before speak out your words. Every words in the conversation is very important. Even though the whole sentences is not interesting, if you have one wrong then it will make another party unhappy and end up with conflicts.

I have a experience that i made my mom unhappy. This incident was happened when i was 8 years old. I accompanied my mom to go to her friend's office. Then, when we reached my mom's friend office, we searched for parking space. After that, my mom saw a parking space over the right hand side. So, she drove to the right hand side,of course. After that, a guard told my mom that this place is for officer to park, then, i said something foul to that guard. My mom straight a way scold me and warned me. She said that if i said something rude, she will not give me pocketmoney. I don't say something rude from that time until now onward. :)
LAstly, we must always careful the word or phrases that we use while communicating!


Written by,
Chong Yen Wan
05/07/09 (Sun)

Songs..!

A song....a antiphonal singing...it is also a interpersonal communication! Because of 2 person are involve in the songs...Singing a song is a type of communication, but this communication is using in singing, we sing our feelings, our ideas, our bias to others people and etc. Some of the people do not know how to express their feelings, then they will use the sing method to express their feelings or emotions. I think that if you hate someone, angry someone or other things that make you feel blue or whatever, you can actually use sing to express your feeling and you won't directly hurt that person who you hate and etc. One of the chinese song is really cool. The lyrics is about a girl and a boy are quarrelling by using sing.

Besides, singing can be a interpersonal communication;so what other things can be interpersonal communication,too? I could say that we always do interpersonal communication everyday such as talk to parents, friends, spouses, animals and so forth. We seldom say out something to our self but we always talk in the heart ourselves. Hehe... If you talk to yourself, others may think that " This person is abnormal or something wrong in his or her mind. :P


Written by,
Chong Yen Wan
02/07/09 (Thrus)