Communication does not have U-turn!

Communication does not have U-turn, it means that once you talk some thing rude to another parties, it cannot take it back or go back to the original one. So, we must always bare in mind that think carefully whether this word or phrase is hurted someone. If the words or phrases is hurted someone, we better keep our mouth shut. For example, when you are driving in the highway,suddenly, you go to the wrong way and then you try your best to find a road to U-turn. So, driving on the road still have another way to go but communiation does not have this choices.

Be a good communicator must be always think before speak out your words. Every words in the conversation is very important. Even though the whole sentences is not interesting, if you have one wrong then it will make another party unhappy and end up with conflicts.

I have a experience that i made my mom unhappy. This incident was happened when i was 8 years old. I accompanied my mom to go to her friend's office. Then, when we reached my mom's friend office, we searched for parking space. After that, my mom saw a parking space over the right hand side. So, she drove to the right hand side,of course. After that, a guard told my mom that this place is for officer to park, then, i said something foul to that guard. My mom straight a way scold me and warned me. She said that if i said something rude, she will not give me pocketmoney. I don't say something rude from that time until now onward. :)
LAstly, we must always careful the word or phrases that we use while communicating!


Written by,
Chong Yen Wan
05/07/09 (Sun)